And results very few results. Because I wallow in illumination and self-pity. Let's take the other extreme of the active agent.

结果呢 很少结果 因为我沉迷于反思和自怜中 我们反观积极主动者。

Oh, do stop admiring yourself! He's not marrying you for your looks.

别顾影自怜了。娶是因为貌若天仙？

But all " kiddin'" aside, he'd still be on the " lamb" if he hadn't stuck his chin out to admire his " vanity" .

但说正经的，如果它没有为了虚荣而直着脖子顾影自怜的话，现在应该还能想去哪就去哪。

They consistently frame themselves as victims, but this toxic cycle of self-pity isn't helping anyone.

们一贯将自己视为受害者，但种自怜的恶性循环对任何人都没有帮助。

We all have our moments of self-pity and self-blame when things don't go our way.

事情没有如我们所愿时，我们都会有自怜和自责的时候。

No reason for resentment, no reason for self-pity.

没有理由怨恨，没有理由自怜。

Haley's wallowing in self-pity, and you're feeding off of it.

海莉沉溺于自怜之中 而以此为生。

He’d been feeling sorry for himself, wallowing in self-pity.

【wallow】一直自哀自怜，无法自拔。

" At least stop feeling so sorry for yourself. If it wasn't for me you'd be living with the kid, and then you wouldn't have much left of what you have now for a tail. Think about that! "

“至少别顾影自怜了。要不是我，就去和那个小伙子住一块儿了，样的话，仅有的那截尾巴也剩不了多少了。想想吧！”

She would have been helped, and I could have shocked her into dispensing with her self-pity. The woman desperately needs help, and I could have handled her condition.

她本来会得到帮助，我也会让她震惊，让她放掉自艾自怜。个女人急需要帮助，而我本来可以处理好她的状况。

That's life. If we face our problems and respond to them positively, and refuse to give in to panic, bitterness, or self-pity .

就是生活。如果我们能面对我们的问题并以积极的态度来应对，而不屈服于惊慌、悲伤或者自怜。

He was a man who spent much of his life wallowing in self pity or else engaged in an endless campaign of self-promotion.

一生中大部分时间都在自怜自哀 或是在无休止地自我推销。

However, it also prevents me from going into a 30-minute self-pity spiral as I scroll through perfect photos on Instagram.

然而，也能阻止我陷入恶性循环，避免我看 IG 时看到完美的照片就自怜自艾地给自己 30 分钟的休息时间。

We might have needed to tread extremely carefully lest we encourage yet another bout of rage or self-pitying explosion.

我们可能需要非常小，以免引发又一次愤怒或自怜的爆发。

Seeing Sallie's pretty things made her long for such, and pity herself because she had not got them.

看到萨莉的那些漂亮东西，她产生了也想拥有的渴望，并为得不到些东西而自怜。

I was sitting on the couch watching Manny play with his toys, feeling pretty sorry for myself.

我坐在沙发上，眼巴巴地看着曼尼玩的玩具，顾影自怜。

13. The Self-Pity Cycle Sometimes life doesn't go your way.

13.自怜循环有时候生活并不如意。

So, if you want to win people to your way of thinking, put in practice ...

所以，如果想让对方认同的想法，请" 自怜" 。

Are your thought processes creating guilt, pride, resentment, anger, regret, or self-pity?

的思维过程是否会产生内疚、骄傲、怨恨、愤怒、后悔或自怜？

And you need to resist the temptation to brood and feel sorry for yourself.

需要抵制沉溺于自怜的诱惑。