Not taking failures personally allows us to recover—and even to thrive.

只有走出过分自责的阴影，才能尽快恢复，甚至督促自己做得更好。

We all have our moments of self-pity and self-blame when things don't go our way.

当事情没有如我们所愿时，我们都会有自怜和自责的时候。

They were not angry with her, but she blamed herself completely.

他们并没有生她的，是苔丝自己陷入了深深的自责中。

The first, which looks inward, is the relentless self-scolding of the workaholic or punctilious student.

第一种是向内的，是工作狂或刻苦学生的严厉自责。

I'm sorry, but we shouldn't feel bad about wanting a little time for ourselves.

我很抱歉，别为我们因共享二人世界付出的代价自责。

I had no reason to blame myself.

可我并没有什么需要自责的地方啊。

You still sweating that ugly display you gave us all a few minutes ago?

你还在为数分钟的表现自责？

Jacob scowled and ducked his head while I fought back a surge of remorse.

雅克布皱起眉，迅速低下了头。我按捺住了一阵汹涌至的自责。

And then maliciously made me think I did it and leveraged my guilt for your own selfish gain.

还蓄意让我以为是我干的，然后利用我的自责谋取你的私利。

The very droop of his shoulders showed that his own self-castigation was more cruel than any she could give.

连他那两个肩膀往下耷拉的模样也表现出了自责比思嘉所能给予的任何批评都要严厉。

If you can't feel the tiniest bit of remorse over taking a human life...No, I don't think you do.

如果你夺去了一个人的生命却没有一丝自责...是的，我想你没有。

Poor students, poor parents. They are caught in one of the oldest webs of love and duty and guilt.

可怜的学生，可怜的父母啊！他们被困在一张亘古以来由爱、责任和自责交织成的网中，难以自拔。

I do feel a little bad, because it looked like it was gonna take a long time to clean up.

不过我还是稍微有一点点自责的，因为看样子要花好长一段时间才能把它给搞干净了。

When you repair, you go further than removing a child's story of self-blame.

当你修复时，你所做的不仅仅是消除孩子的自责故事。

It was something I always beat myself up about.

这是我总是自责的事情。

So I emphasize that just because it's not something to blame yourself for.

所以我要强调的是，这并不是什么需要自责的事情。

Here's one that I find myself guilty of on the regular.

以下是我经常自责的一件事。

But you can't blame yourself for what happened.

但你不能为发生的事情自责。

I'm not saying it's a choice that you freaking beat yourself up over it.

我并不是说，这是一个让你为此自责不已的选择。

And that's something not to beat yourself up about.

那是不该自责的事。