subconsciously

In choosing a partner we are subconsciously assessing their evolutionary fitness to be a mother of children or father provider and protector.

的时候，我们会潜意识里衡量对方将来是否会是称职的母亲或者父亲，是否会是合格的一家之主。

Although Olga loved Jack, that image of wifehood (hers, not his) was so noxious that subconsciously she knew she couldn't sustain it.

虽然Olga爱Jack,但是这种（她产生而不是他产生的）妻子形象太有毒害性，以至于潜意识里自己知道无法维系下去。