North American tribal customs feature “two-spirit” people who combined male and female attributes (anthropologists call these “berdache”, from a French word for catamite).
She says: " Although to be driven back upon oneself is an uneasy affair at best, rather like trying to cross a border with borrowed credentials." Nice.
I mean I could wear my moms clothes, like I did my dad's, because, but then you cannot really do that because if you wear your mom's clothes it will just look like you borrowed clothes from someone.