Ok kids, here’sa beach ball and a Frisbee, a pail and a shovel. I want to see an impressive sandcastle by the time we leave. Don’t stray too far. Wait! Leave your sandals here or put on your wet shoes.
It's a bit of a hike to get to the top, but it's absolutely worth it because as you walk up, you will pass a lot of other small waterfalls that are just as impressive.
And what that means is that one person's performance is assessed by someone else's perception. This is not a setup for honesty. Think about how people speak in a typical workforce.
From what I've been reading, a lot of the claims about how you position in the family determines certain personality traits are just stereotypes, with no robust evidence to support them.
Ambady suspected that deliberation focused them on vivid but misleading cues, such as certain gestures or utterances, rather than letting the complex interplay of subtle signals form a holistic impression.