有礼

I hope you will behave with decorum at the funeral.

我们希望你在葬礼上做到得体有礼。

They’re brutal people behind their civilised veneer.

他们表面上温文有礼，骨子野蛮残忍。

She behaves with decorum.

她举止端庄有礼。

I wasn't used to such good treatment, then it clicked : we were wearing suits.

我不习惯这么有礼的招待，随后我恍大悟：因为我们穿着西装。

Dress simply, pursue nature but not flubdub. Mind the fashion of your age cohorts; be polite according to different occasion.

衣着朴素，追求自而不引人注意。留意与自己同等人的时尚，根据不同的场合，做到斯文有礼。

Practice word therapy—serenity, urbanity, imperturbability, equanimity. Say those powerful, mind-healing words over to yourself every day. Let them recondition your stressful attitudes.

经常练习文句疗法——平、温文有礼、着、镇定。每日对自己不断重复这些字，这些具有强大力量和心灵医疗神效的字眼，让它们重新约制你的抖擞态度。